Thursday, September 09, 2010
How the passive aggressive game is played in your marriage?
There are many interactions, but mainly they are repetitive....One person wants to get near and makes moves to invite the other person into a shared activity that includes some intimacy; the PA person senses the wish/need underneath the invitation and freaks out, and tries to build up some reason for the distance, the coldness, the separation....whatever you want to call the wall between the two.
And, in this play, you can spend your life....WHY? Find a tentative response here, in this clear and deep article:
A Passive Aggressive Husband needs his anger target: Is that you?